Sex Toys for Lesbian Couples
We know how overwhelming selecting a toy for both of you can be. Fortunately, if you answer two simple questions, it's easy!
1. Do you want something to use to liven up your sex life?
* Are you looking for something to use during intercourse? The most obvious choice would be a harness, but a strap-on clitoral stimulator for clitoral stimulation while she's being pleasured elsewhere is also an option.
* Looking for a toy you can both use at once? A doubled-ended dildo is perfect for shared satisfaction, but almost any vibrator can also be adapted for shared use.
* Vibrators, dildos and nipple stimulators are great for solo play, but it's also erotic to watch your partner use her toys, or for you to use toys on her!
* Do you want something to liven up foreplay? Then a fingertip massager or a micro-bullet would be perfect, as both are small enough to use with hands or tongues.
* Something for use in public? Then you definitely want something that's remote-controlled. A vibrating thong or an insertable remote egg will make a night out extremely memorable. Just be sure there's plenty of background noise!
* Have you both wanted to explore alternative kicks? Try any sort of light bondage gear such as blindfolds, fabric cuffs and ropes. Or investigate disciplinary tools such as whips and paddles.
2. Are you looking for something soft and romantic to woo your partner?
* Do you simply want a sensual way to spend more time with your mate? Try a warm bath with scented bubbles and maybe a vibrating sponge to cleanse and massage daily stress away.
* Would you like to connect physically with your partner in a new or different way? A sensual massage is a wonderful way to do this. Use scented lotions or warming oils and then up the ante by using something edible!
* Are you seeking a fun way to initiate your sexual encounters? You should definitely look into body balms, dusts and paints. Use them as innocently or indecently as you both want, just be sure you have old blankets or sheets you don't mind getting dirty!
* Are you looking for something that is more subtle than a how-to book? Our couple's games range from simple, scratch card formats to sensual card games to more complex board games that challenge both of you to be more open and loving with each other.
Make Sure You Have All Your Accessories
Finally, after you've selected the product that you think meets your needs, make sure you have all of the following:
* Plenty of fresh batteries in the proper size for your battery-operated toy. The description and the box your vibe comes in should say what size is needed.
* Lubricant. Read about why and how to use lubricant here!
* Information on how to care for your toy and keep it clean, which can be found in the MyPleasure Guide to Sex Toys.
Now that you've found something that you like, enjoy it in good health and great pleasure!
